Is it worth?

Is it worth to be with someone
U can’t share ur happiness with
U can’t share ur saddeness with
Is it worth ur time to invest in someone
Who’s ready to let u go to bed sad
Who doesn’t ask you back if ur fine
While you shed your tears n wipe them on your own !
Is it worth your emotions to be there for a man
Who asks whether your emotions are his matter of concern
Whether a bad incident that happened with you, matters to him anyways?
Is it worth the wait to be with someone
For whom you forget your adversities, your problems, your issues n sort theirs
While they aren’t even there ... when u just want someone by your side so bad
Is it worth all that patience that u kept... to be with someone who loses his patience if you ask for a little extra time !
Think again and ask yourself again
Is it even worth, to go off to sleep n think ,still think - that tomorrow he might not be the same, tomorrow things maybe get better
I’ll ask this again- is it still worth all this
Over n over again ?

ur abscence doesn’t matter .... anymore

Ur absence doesn’t matter
If u don’t recieve any more of the regular messages from him anymore,
If its u making the first call now,
If u not pinging him doesn’t matter anymore
If your silence doesn’t bother him anymore
If he’s not intrested to know how was your day,
If he forgets things uve told him
If he now has no direct conversations
If he wants to put down the phone asap
If things aren’t the same anymore
If ur instincts tell u so...
Trust me, my friend .... ur presence isn’t required anymore
Nd ur absence will not matter anymore !!

For guys who aren’t over the previous girl

Guys, who haven’t moved over their prev girls.
Pls don’t allow some other girls to count on u,
Restrict your relation with that new girl to just friends,
when u have no intentions to take it forward
Dont talk to that girl the whole day confiding each and every detail of your routine,
telling her things, that uve already shared with your prev girl n then saying” I haven’t got so close to anyone in all this time”
Let that girl not think that you were waiting for her call when u desperately pick up the call in first ring,
Let that girl not develop any attachment for u ,By u being awke for her late night, listening to nothing but her silence,
Coz after all, you have to go back to your prev girl
Don’t send her pictures stating that uve got it clicked just for her , coz after all that will make her feel important to u.
Don’t become the goody good vibe of change in her life, when you don’t intent to keep it that way
Coz after all , she’s just a intermediate thing till you get back to your prev girl
But when uve done all this ,
made her develop hopes, attachment, trust, empathy for u...
 don’t drop everything right in middle n run, without an explaination, like a coward
Have the guts to say, that u wanna go back to the same girl, for whom you told her ”I never wanna see her face again”
Have the guts to tell her that NO , you never were important
Have the courage to tell her that she no more means anything to u
Coz guys , you will go back to ur prev girl, but this girl .... she will have all gathered pieces of her heart broken again !!
N a lesson that she’ll never forget
Never will she allow, just a friend, to move closer sentimentally
Never will she take someone’s “I think I like u” at 3 in the morning as a sign of attachment
Never will she spend hours on phone, chatting n describing each details of her day, even though she doesn’t like talking much
Never again will she even think of making someone else important
Coz my friend , for someone who left u earlier , n u wanted to go back to them, u spoiled the emotional index of someone , who never was a part of it
Who never was a part of it

Some other time.... maybe !!

He asked me randomly...

 What kind of a guy are u looking for...

And there..for the first time... Out of words i was ...

It was for the first time.. That i couldnt grab the right words to frame a response to him...

But this time, even my wittiness couldn’t pull me out of it...

Tried my best ... To avoid the question... Again and again... 

But his persistence, i swear.... Was something commendable i should say ...

Blush blush.... Was saying it all.

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Oh did he assumed the right answer... Or still it was in the black hole 🤣.

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But... Certain things are better left unsaid... And like alwaz ... I told him again “for the next time, we should keep this conversation safe” !!! .

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